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UK & Ireland Men’s Area Order Weekend: The Good Friend, the False Friend, and the Spiritual Friend

‘…if a man had a spiritual friend it was to be expected that he would develop and cultivate the Perfect Eightfold Path. Thus it could be seen that spiritual friendship is the whole of the holy life. With him for spiritual friend, beings subject to birth are freed from birth; beings subject to ageing are freed from ageing; beings subject to death are freed from death; beings subject to sorrow, lamentation, pain, displeasure, and despair are freed from sorrow, lamentation, pain, displeasure, and despair. Thus the Buddha was the original spiritual friend.’

Sangharakshita, The Good Friend, the False Friend, and the Spiritual Friend

In a concise and pithy form, this paper sets out the high ideals and duties of the good friend and goes on to show how the spiritual friend goes beyond even this and enables one to move towards Enlightenment. Come on this weekend to celebrate and delight in Spiritual Friendship, one of Triratna’s distinctive emphases and Bhante’s contributions to the modern Buddhist World. We will also be exploring the Buddha as the ‘original spiritual friend’, and how we could strengthen our sense of him as being so.

There will be a talk by Paramārtha, to whom Bhante dictated the paper, as well as personal talks from a range of Order Members, Puja, Meditation and Ritual.

Details and Timings

The retreat starts with dinner on the first day at 6:30pm and finishes on the final day at 2:30pm. 

Banner and thumbnail image: Triratna Picture Library ©

The weekend is followed by a week long Padmasambhava Retreat for Dharmacharis.

Led by
Satyakirti and a team of younger Order Members
Retreat Open To:
Dharmacharis
Retreat Type
Order Retreat
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Coming on retreat

Coming on a retreat at Padmaloka is a step into another way of being, where we temporarily take up a way of life that is more supportive of Buddhist Practice. We go forth from our ordinary circumstances, our comforts and distractions so that we can discern and move towards our ideals and help others to do so as well.When booking a retreat at Padmaloka it is important to get a sense of how you will be living here - what our customs, etiquettes and requirements for being on retreat are.

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